Homeschooling Through My Kids’ Eyes
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Have you ever wondered what homeschooling really feels like for kids? We often hear from parents, bloggers, and curriculum creators—but today, I want to give you a different perspective. This is homeschooling through my kids’ eyes —unscripted, unfiltered, and full of love, frustration, and honest reflection.
As a homeschool mom, I frequently wonder: Is this working? Are they enjoying it? What could we do better? I regularly ask my kids what they want to learn, what they’d like to change, and how they feel about our homeschool days. This post is a reflection of those conversations—and I hope it inspires you to ask your own kids what they think, too.
Homeschooling Through My Kids’ Eyes: Why This Matters?
It’s important to listen to your learners! Giving kids a voice in their own education helps them:
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Feel empowered and heard
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Develop self-awareness about their learning preferences
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Build communication and problem-solving skills
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Take ownership of their school day
Whether you’re homeschooling full-time, part-time, or just thinking about it, hearing straight from the kids is a valuable lens.
Homeschooling Through the Eyes of My 3-Year-Old
While he’s too young for formal lessons, he always wants to be included—and that says a lot about the environment we’re creating.
Q: What do you like to do while Mom is doing school with the big kids?
“Play. But sometimes I do school too.”
Q: What do you do for your school time?
“I do play dough, puzzles, color, paint, play with animals and shapes, and iPad games.”
Q: What do you like about school?
“I like to do my letters and my About Me book. We learned about bodies!”
Q: What do you not like?
“I get sad when I can’t be loud or play toys.”
What he’s learning:
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Early literacy and fine motor skills
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Emotional regulation
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Inclusion and belonging
Homeschooling Through the Eyes of My 6-Year-Old Daughter
Q: What do you like about being homeschooled?
“I like that we homeschool because some people say homeschoolers are smarter. Our mom teaches us, and we can trust her. She knows what I want to learn.”
Q: What do you not like?
“My friends go to school and I miss them during the day.”
Q: Favorite school books or subjects?
“I love reading time! Poems, Sassafras Science, Draw Write Now, and our About Me book. And art. Always art.”
Q: Least favorite?
“Math. It’s really hard for me.”
Q: What’s a hard homeschool day?
“When math is hard or I don’t do my work and it takes all day.”
Q: What would you change?
“More outside exercise. More sewing and cooking, please!”
What she’s learning:
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Creative expression
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Self-reflection
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Ownership of her education
Homeschooling Through the Eyes of My 9-Year-Old Son
Q: What do you like about being homeschooled?
“I like being with my family, field trips, and that we finish school faster than regular school.”
Q: What’s hard?
“Waiting for friends to play. And fighting with my sister.”
Q: Favorite subjects?
“Sassafras Science, reading, and iPad games.”
Q: Least favorite?
“Math, grammar, and writing. Writing is exhausting.”
Q: What would you change?
“Nothing, really.”
Q: What makes a hard day?
“When people are upset or not doing what they’re supposed to do.”
What he’s learning:
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Scientific curiosity
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Emotional intelligence
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Time management and independence
There you have it. The good, the bad & the ugly! I love hearing their insight on our school day because it helps me know what I am doing right as well as what I need to improve.
Reflections from Mom
Reading their responses made me laugh, tear up, and reflect on what we’re building together. Yes, we have tough days. But we also have laughter, creativity, and moments of joy that we never would have had otherwise.
What I’ve learned:
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They value connection and flexibility.
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They want a voice in how they learn.
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They thrive when we do hands-on, meaningful learning together.
Want to Try This with Your Own Kids?
Ask your children:
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What do you love about our homeschool?
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What’s your favorite subject or book?
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What do you wish we did more of?
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What’s the hardest part of your school day?
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If you could change one thing, what would it be?
Their answers might surprise you—and they’ll help you create a learning experience that’s more tailored, meaningful, and joy-filled.
See More of My Homeschool Content:
How to Start a Homeschool Co-op
How to Choose a Homeschool Curriculum
